It's ok, we're not the only fandom obsessing over the hair/clothes/beard, etc.
I follow Conchita, winner of the 2014 Eurovision contest, drag queen extraordinaire. She started the contest, looking like this glamorous bearded lady, beautiful beautiful woman, super feminine. She also gets bored easily, like our darling, and has been gradually changing her look to a more edgy, androgynous look....nose ring, beard a little less subtle, showing more chest....but still gorgeous. But it's funny to read the comments....don't like the nose ring, the longer facial hair, etc. (comments include mine lol).
I think one fandom is pretty much like the other. It would just never occur to me to send complaints to either Adam or Conchita about their looks, but I figure that's what fanboards are for.
BTW, Conchita just got to do a concert at the Sydney Opera House in Australia....it was sold out and I hear it was FANTASTIC....now she's getting ready to go on a small tour, and then she's taking the summer off to work on her 2nd album. I can't wait, I loved, loved her first one. I even have a Adam/Conchita playlist on my Ipod.
Who would have ever thought I'd be following a drag queen at my age lol. When she talks about her life, and her thoughts, she reminds me so much of Adam. She's really awesome.